Is First Love Real?


Originally posted 2016-06-25 18:05:59.

First Love


“Your first love is always alive and lives all time in your heart. How much you try to forget, it never goes away from your heart”.The reason first love stories are so compelling to read is because there is something so powerful about a young love experience. Is it because it happens when our hearts are still innocent and pure — before that first inevitable heartbreak? Or is it because once that huge flame dies out, a few warm embers remain to keep the memory aglow?We all have someone who takes huge part in our lives. We speak day and night, make plans, try to overcome obstacles together.

We say what we do in a minute of time, we share all seconds with her. We feel jealous, protective, we adopt each other. We do not need sentences, we can know what he wants to say, how he feels with one word, one expression… However, sometimes things do not go on its way. One conflict leads severe consequences. Then what happens?? We start to separate from each other. We do not share every second anymore, we do not feel excited. Then one text arrives:” It is over”. You might think it is over, but the whole story starts just now…

Feelings according to men and women

Feelings may differ from genders. Women always take it much more seriously rather than men. First days is the hardest for them. They isolate from public, feel guilty and depressed, ready to argue with anyone because of any reason. On the other hand, men look like much stronger than women, but it is not true. They try to escape from it, and act like nothing happens. In the deep of their heart they are screaming and blame themselves for that. Only one thing is truly same for men and women. First love never can be forgotten. No matter what they say, first love always creates a gap in the heart.

Loss of young first love is painful… love-wallpapers-35 

We communicate a lot of people in the lifetime, and some of interest could be the similar or even the same. We get to know each other and start to flirt. Do you remember, there is a gap remain in our heart?? Then we try to fill the gap with this person. Same procedure is applied which have done with the first one. We feel the same as the first one, but there is a picture or a word that make us to remember him. Your mouth is speaking with him, but your thoughts are with her. It continues in every love in every person that you speak, dream. It proves that true is the one who we meet in the first place. The rest is only serves to fill this gap in our heart. “The loss of young first love is so painful that it borders on the ludicrous”( Maya Angelou) First love is real but remember, being someone’s first love may be great and true but to be their last is beyond perfect…

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